Why are people like this?

Eeyore said
https://baptistnews.com/article/pas...ation-on-harmful-evangelical-teaching-on-sex/
On your wedding night, “stand where he tells you to stand, wear what he tells you to wear, and do what he tells you to do.”

That's an easy problem. He only needs to remind of Timothy 2:12. Women have no standing to bring a complaint.

I do not permit a woman to teach or to assume authority over a man; she must be quiet