Israel (now broader Mid East discussion)

Sure, but then maybe go back to your original borders after you defeat them militarily. You can't just keep people in military occupation for 70+ years and expect to be safe. And that's the issue, Israel believes it needs the expanded borders to protect itself -- but it doesn't want the people on the land they conquered to be citizens... hence the ethnic cleansing discussion that members of Israel's government have openly discussed.
Your answer to everything is that the Israelis are the ones who must capitulate

I have no issue with any country keeping territory they gained after being attacked by 4 or 5 nations...considering how the United States was formed I would find it hypocritical for anybody who enjoys the fruits of that process to tell another country that they are not allowed to do so. I would have no issue with a 2 state system with the borders being where they ended up after the Arab-Israeli War and would expect either side to be dealt with if they violated that.