I don’t know the whole truth of it because we just don't discuss it but my Dad may have shot a man after repeated break-ins of his business. Obviously it went unreported or was covered up by friends with influence. He was a good man and you could tell that he carried a big weight all of his life.
As good a man as Dad was, his oldest brother once cornered me and grabbed my 9 year old breasts. Never told my parents, it would have broke Dad's heart. Arrogant trash would give me looks over the years like he thought he had the upper hand. When I was old enough to stop fearing him, I made myself quite clear to him and he quit the snideness.