And people also confuse lack of support for a celebration with lack of support for the group. For example, i ref HS and college football. When the pink october stuff hit its peak in the NFL, some HS refs wanted to start wearing pink whistles, flags, lanyards, etc. Of course anyone who was opposed to it because they didn’t have the money to spend on all the extra pink gear was seen as anti cancer survivor. Equally, there may be other reasons you feel it unnecessary to have gay parades and celebrations than just that you hate the LGBTQ+ community.