lol, I know. I just watched it and really paid attention so that I was sure I understood (I honestly had forgotten the husband of Madeleine).
Anyway, one of the things that really griped me was when he was trying to make Judy over into Madeleine. He kept saying "It can't possibly make a difference to you, Judy." Yeah, nothing a woman hates more than deciding for herself what clothes to wear or how to do her makeup. Controlling much?