It's the nature of the beast unfortunately. There aren't any winners in this conflict. And while 10/7 is a significant day in history, this has gone on for hundreds if not thousands of years. They all have valid grievances. They've been talking past each other for a long, long time.
I actually have friends from both sides of the conflict who have lost family members in the conflict. There's definitely anger and sadness there. They all bear some responsibility for what's happening.
There are those kind of people out there. But they're being drowned out by all of the propaganda noise on social media. Social media is as much a conduit for propaganda as it is for a voice of reason.