I had a date Saturday night. I've been separated (divorced as soon as we work out healthcare and equity in the houses) for 3 years, and she is far and away the best. We have a lot in common, and she is a lovely lady :)
I may be in a similar situation soon. If you don't mind my asking, how long did you wait before dating? Clearly I can't put my life on hold while my spouse figures herself out, but we're also still married which makes it not seem right somehow.