Rock Bottom!!!!
The best analogy I can give you is this. Why do most elderly people die from, let’s say Cancer? Pretty simple. They believe that if they ignore the symptoms, avoid the doctor, and are not diagnosed, they can live on. The reality is that accepting the current state of affairs allows you to make decisions to live rather than to ignore the issue and die.
Think of today as the elderly person finally going to the doctor and getting on a plan to live. We have, and will see better days. We just have a lot of chemotherapy in the near future and a lot of tough days. We, as Whodats, will live again.