Just because you don’t see the hate on Twitter, doesn’t mean it’s not there and prolific. I can avoid things that are offensive, but it’s still offensive they exist.
No but I like deciding what hate is for myself. You have other people deciding that for you, you've given up agency. What offends my sensibilities will be the same as yours for some things .... but not all. Therein lies the conflict.
For example, you're a man. Some people find it offensive you exist no matter what kind of man you are. I would assume that that's something you don't agree with.