Still not getting its not about what you need. Our purpose in life is our family. I don’t need much, could live in a shack. It’s about providing generations to come.
I think if you asked his family if they’d rather have him healthy or have more money, they’d pick him. You can always make more money, but you can’t replace a lost family member. I may be biased because I never got to have a relationship with my father and I wish I could have.