Teachers should really be aware of how what they say can greatly impact a student. To a child who was brutally trained to never question a statement and to suffer in silence, simple statements they think a normal child would challenge can become a life long shame event.
As she brought me for a uniform change, she said, I didn't think anyone would actually not ask. But she point blank started with the statement "no bathroom breaks". A child in trauma survival mode does their best and will be silent then try to hide the accident because at home disobedience even to an irrational demand can put their very lives in danger.