LOL i was Lloyd. I was being facetious about the kickboxing part. lol.
The number one factor is her happiness. Are they happy? then they will find a way.
The only advice i can offer them regarding life is that it will take all sorts of twists and turns, and that is part of the journey and enjoy the journey. Im not looking to insert myself into her/their journey ( thats my wifes job that i have to remind constantly - back up a bit, you are too close ) - offer advice? absolutely.
But its her life. Live it how you want. Just stay true to yourself. We will always be just off stage left to support.