my second marriage lasted almost 20 years----I knew i made a mistake after 5 but my responsibility to her and her children kept me trapped but loved. after the kids moved out the drama of the young uns trying to make it alone and me trying to make it right, and then my wife's sexual curiosity involving other women ( nope is the answer to what you're thinkin) became too much to bear.
Then her cancer scare..........and my inability to cope other than working my rear end off to pay the bills rather than giving her the attention she really needed.
She beat it, then said she needed time alone and i bought her a condo with the thought she'd never come back. she wanted back after 4 months---by then i was so flipping happy to be alone with the dogs i gladly let her file for divorce and kissed the lawyer on the lips who came up with the pre-nup.
Life is grand. My house is black and gold and the kitchen plays WWOZ 16 hrs a day.
One ticket.....One ride. make it yours.