clearing the deck - the marriage status thread

He was trying hard to plead his case that he was over it & ready to move on. That was the moment when I knew I would never see him again. You don’t just get over 25 years with someone in a month & explained to him that accepting that the relationship ended & there would not be reconciliation is not the same thing as being “over it” and also in a good mental space to move on and try to begin a life with someone new.
Yeah no freaking way he was ready to move on. Knowing what I know about getting over divorce, I am cautious of dating anyone less than 2 years removed from a divorce. It’s pretty easy to spot when someone isn’t ready when you have gone through it yourself.