clearing the deck - the marriage status thread

I’ve messed up twice getting married.

2006 I turned 18 in April. Married in Sept.
I was a Jehovah’s Witness so it’s kinda just what u did in that cult.

2016 she cheated with another JW. Told me about it in Jan 2017. We tried to make it work til I caught her talking to another guy in Nov 2017. I moved out the next day.

But. My buddy text a friend he knew about 10 days later. We talked for a month and met mid Dec 2017.

Engaged Dec 2019. Married Nov 2021.

And then April 2023 she said she wasn’t happy, might want kids and doesn’t know what she wants.

So since I had a vasectomy and 2 kids already I wasn’t having more kids. Her sister had a baby a month after our first anniversary and I think that changed things.

Now I refuse to get married. Have a gf but it’s very clear I’m not doing it again.