Add to that social media has distorted the female expectations to the point that studies find 60% of men under 30 have given up on dating. Men are frustrated by women who aren't worth the trouble any longer because they believe they are safer with a bear than a man. Then they go out and brag about getting a body count or complain that they were used when they ignore a decent guy and only talk to the ones who are willing to use them because they understand the game.