This is an interesting take ...but let's be real, most rapes aren't reported because women aren't believed, had it coming because they were drinking/flirting/wearing the wrong attire. Men & boys have gotten away with it for years. Remember that guy who literally got caught raping the girl behind the dumpster and the judge let him off easy so as not to ruin his future?
The instances of false accusation are far less than the number of rapes that go unreported and men pose a threat to women at all times. As I stated earlier, it's not all men but it's almost always a man. We have to worry if someone put something in our drink if we turn our head for half a second, if the plumber coming into our house to fix the toilet will rape & kill us, can't go jogging at night in certain areas because some maladjusted man pissed off that his dad left 40 years ago might be lurking for prey, is the neighbor secretly spying on me to sneak up on me and attack, etc. This is reality for women. So if men are worried about accusations, then they need to blame the other men that have done these things for centuries with little impunity creating the stereotype. Women have to keep our head on swivel at all times while men are only just now having to worry about how their behaviors might result in negative consequences - boohoo cry me a river.
Some men are also struggling because women are no longer centering their lives around men and men actually have to be likeable.
The social media aspect is a whole other discussion - as it has ruined people's perception of reality of so many things; dating included.
I'll get off my soapbox. I've gone a little too far off the reservation with this rant and going to get the finger wag to stay on topic.