clearing the deck - the marriage status thread

I could write a book on how many married men and men in serious relationships (like living with a woman) have pursued me. I think to myself "I am not ugly. Why would you think that I'd settle for this?" but I digress.

ETA: This is a big reason why I have not had a lot of interest in marriage again. Not all of them have been the standard dooshbag type of guy either. Most of them, to the rest of the world, would appear to be great husbands & fathers.