Vehicle plows into crowd on Bourbon St., with 14 fatalities

saint_drago said
I wonder to what degree this exists in other countries? What would it be like if dudes could openly express themselves without fear of not being macho enough? Men in America are supposed to be the strong silent type, a nerd, or a bro's bro. I guess I'm strong and silent but I mean, I like Star Wars and the opening of "Up" gets me feelin some type of way. I like football so that's macho I guess but when I hear John Lennon sing "Mother" I can't help but tear up. I don't sit around squalling but I get emotional. How are you supposed to get through life trying to be a robot?

Maybe it comes down to how comfortable you are in your own skin. Who knows. All I know is this dude was troubled to say the least. For the life of me I'll never understand why someone would want to take out a bunch of innocent people before opting out. If that's what this even was. Could be he was radicalized and believed in what he was doing. Trying to rationalize the irrational is tough.

Oh it definitely exists in other countries too and especially in the older generations here

What I’ve observed with my younger colleagues—especially after their first parental leave—is that even the traditionally "strong, silent types" undergo noticeable changes. Spending a year caring for a 1-year-old (and possibly older children) seems to make them more open, social, and empathetic. They become better listeners and far more patient, qualities that benefit both their personal lives and their professional roles.

Companies recognize these positive changes, which is why there’s often a strong expectation for new fathers to take that year of leave once the mother’s leave ends. It’s not just about sharing responsibilities at home; it’s also about fostering skills that improve workplace dynamics and leadership.