The woman I'm seeing tomorrow lost her husband to cancer, but she alluded to finding out something after his demise that really upset her. I'll go with the most likely scenario which is infidelity. She spoke about not being able to trust again, and the frustration of being unable to confront him about it and her ensuing anger.
I don't know exactly what transpired. I didn't push her on it. She'll tell me if and when she's comfortable.
Damn brother, I'm sorry for your loss.