Not at all. But I do have a bad habit of pointing out the obvious- when I’m not the one in the situation. It’s hard to see things for what they are and balance your perspective when you’re the one in it. Also, when it comes to red flags in relationships that are new, I am an expert because I’ve already done all that ish myself. I am happy to say that I no longer fall for these traps. The pendulum has probably swing a little too far in the opposite direction for me but it does save me a lot of time and unnecessary grief.
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