My son is a little different. He's actually just looking for someone to hang out with and spend time with. He started out going by looks and he got a couple bat sheet crazy ones that way. He's now not focusing on looks so much and currently has a super nice girl that treats him well. She's not horrible looking but not what you'd consider smoking hot....just normal. I told him to stop being so shallow and it's working out much better for him so far.