Dating

CapitalCitySaint said
A lot of men may appear clean at first glance but they aren’t. They wash clothes, leave them in the washer too long then dry them anyway and they stink, they don’t kept their nails trimmed & clean. They don’t floss their teeth, brush once per day if that & never go to their 2x annual FREE dental cleanings that dental insurance provides. A lot of men need to be using antibacterial soap bc they reek of BO. They wear nasty old man cologne or just way too much cologne in general. They don’t keep their hair cut or at least clean and neat. Their house/apartments and cars (if they have them) are dirty.

Don’t get it twisted, I will not come near a man with bad hygiene but I have guy friends some of these things apply to, friends with husbands/bf who are gross, see these nasty mfa’s at the gym and other places.

Don’t get me wrong, I know there are plenty of filthy women, too. I just don’t date women so I am talking about hygiene for men

I can fathom sitting/working around the house for a day in an unkempt state. I cannot fathom showing up for a date that night in the same unkempt state.

My house and of course my car are clean.

I have been in the vehicles of women who treated their cars like a dump. I did a ride-along with a woman at work (sales rep years ago) who had dogs. She apologized for the condition of her car and said she didn’t have a chance to clean it this past weekend.

Past weekend?? Who you tryna fool? You ain’t cleaned this thing in the current decade. Dog hair everywhere. Center console filthy. That car was disgusting. I went home and showered immediately

And be nice to your pets. Don’t ever yell at them in front of me because god knows how you treat them if I’m not there. My cat is as well cared for as my car. Not over the top, just well-tended.