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CapitalCitySaint said

Damn all I said/observed was that the men in the forum have a thing for Asian women and suddenly everyone is defensive and explaining in paragraphs why they prefer Asian women over Americans/white women & running to the defense of Asian women saying that they aren’t all sloots & gold diggers.

Let the record reflect that I never stated any kind of stereotypes. it was the other men telling y’all to be careful for the gold diggers & sloots. Not me.

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I mean, i didnt think ur post about ‘most guys here like Asian women’ or whatever was negative, or accusatory or anything like that.. i just saw it as ur observation … similarly, my response to you was simply my observation (im assuming my response was one of the posts you were referring to as ‘defensive’).. Also, in order to be defensive- doesn’t there need to be something you are trying to ‘defend’ ? Again speaking only for myself, i have nothing to defend , i just think it’s a little funny, and maybe a little ironic that i was never into Asian women until i moved to Asia .. i actually thought my response to you was thoughtful, logical and maybe even a little bit vulnerable (of course i am biased). ….. Then again, despite my best intentions- maybe even *this* very post is coming across as defensive :shrug: .. if so, then i guess i give up…. Also i learned a long time ago to never discount the possibility that what i think may in fact be wrong .