I think you're spot on. It seems that for a lot of fans who gets hired is as important to them as the results of their biopsy would be.
I want the Saints to do well and win, but it's low on my list of priorities in life. I would trade the Saints never winning another game to get back my closest friend that died unexpectedly in November the morning after I talked to her. I'm not sharing that to get sympathy. I'm just sharing it to give some perspective on priorities.
It's not healthy to stay so upset and angry about things we can't control. It's soul crushing and life sucking.