I don't disagree with any of above.....but I think it is fair to say that the sunshine pumping gaslighters haven't been right about much of anything the last few years.....sorry, couldn't resist....
The problem, as I see it, is even people who are just trying to be reasonable get swept up in the accusations of gaslighting and sunshine pumping for the unforgivable sin of not being miserable, angry, and intolerant about every single thing that happens. And Jahova forbid, finding something positive in something.