Yeah we’ve all heard that “rule” for years and years, yet ive never heard anyone explain where it came from or who made up that “rule .”
It just seems so arbitrary and weird .. it seems to me that true connections and , yes, even love- are extremely hard to find so as long as everyone is of legal age and is there consensually then if you’re a middle-aged guy- why rule out a 42 year old woman , or a 26 year old woman ? Love comes in all shapes and sizes and ages .