Pat Kirwan said he heard Carr didn’t want to do Saints contract restructure

Completely hypothetical but what if it’s his wife and kids that really didn’t want to be in New Orleans? They probably have all their friends and family in Fresno. Why force the family to stay in NOLA to appease fans that don’t like you anyway? Him not staying for the super bowl and mardi gras is a huge nothingburger.

Your hypothetical is exactly the point. His wife, kids, and Carr want to be in Fresno. That's why they wouldn't want to be here for the Super Bowl or Mardi Gras. And, frankly, there is nothing wrong with them preferring to be in Fresno or any place else.

I also didn't say he should appease the fans of try to appease the fans.