Your hypothetical is exactly the point. His wife, kids, and Carr want to be in Fresno. That's why they wouldn't want to be here for the Super Bowl or Mardi Gras. And, frankly, there is nothing wrong with them preferring to be in Fresno or any place else.
I also didn't say he should appease the fans of try to appease the fans.
It doesn’t mean he doesn’t want to play here, maybe he just doesn’t want to live there because he wants to be where his wife and kids are happy….This is no reason to question his loyalty to the TEAM.