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It's all very simple. You're either a willing participant of the MCU or not. You're either willing to go to where the directors and writers of the MCU is taking you or you're not. And if you're not, it's because you have expectations for how the characters should be. When those expectations are not met, it's understandable that you'd be upset.
I'll grant that based off the set up, the writers and directors (generally speaking) do a play a role in creating those expectations, but we are so advanced in storytelling/narrative digestion as a society, that creators are trying to do their best to deconstruct and subvert those expectations. A good example is Thor Ragnarok, it deconstructed Thor and rebuilt him into a more funny yet more responsible Kingly Thor. A bad example is The Last Jedi deconstructing Luke Skywalker completely jarring our expectations.
So it all comes down to whether you're willing to go with the director/writer's vision or not. I'm a willing participant... except for M. Night Shymalan destroying Avatar: The Last Airbender... fork that guy.
I'll grant that based off the set up, the writers and directors (generally speaking) do a play a role in creating those expectations, but we are so advanced in storytelling/narrative digestion as a society, that creators are trying to do their best to deconstruct and subvert those expectations. A good example is Thor Ragnarok, it deconstructed Thor and rebuilt him into a more funny yet more responsible Kingly Thor. A bad example is The Last Jedi deconstructing Luke Skywalker completely jarring our expectations.
So it all comes down to whether you're willing to go with the director/writer's vision or not. I'm a willing participant... except for M. Night Shymalan destroying Avatar: The Last Airbender... fork that guy.