Issey Miyake and Aqua di Gio = women all over you. Seriously though I have both of those and wouldn't think about using anything else. All I ever get are compliments on how good either one of them smells. Definitely should check any of those 2 out.
My suggestion is to not listen to people's advice on what to wear because everything smells different on different people. Don't go with something thats a top seller because everyone and their brother is going to smell the same. Go by your local Dillards or wherever and find a couple of things you like, get some samples and test them out. Your body has its own smell and will only mix with certain colognes properly. For the record I wear Pleasures by Estee Lauder, if you're just trying to get some names to check out.