I normally just play random people and I never have a problem connecting. My brother just got a 360 for Xmass and I am trying to play him in NCAA. He has played random people just find and has no problem with his connection. For some reason it doesnt let me connect to him to play. It wont even let me send him an invite from my freind list. We have to go into a lobby to be able to connect. As soon as he accepts the invite it says your connection has been lost. Any ideas before I seriously destroy something.