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Our third was an accident and she is the best thing to ever happen to her two older brothers and our family. She really introduced a dynamic that they were so far removed from. I think going from one to two was the biggest adjustment, or maybe going from zero to one was but I can't remember that far back...
The third is cake, and three is the magic number if your'e going to have kids.
I think 4 is the magic number IFyou can afford it. We have two that are two years apart and 2 that are 19 months apart. Both pairs have each other as playmates and are close enough in age to always enjoy the same things plus you have the dynamic of the relationship between the older and younger pairs.
I feel blessed having had my daughter first. She's such a mother hen to the boys and they are all very close to her.