saintmdterps
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You need not be embarrassed. It takes a much tougher person to ask for help than to gut it out alone.I appreciate the support!
So here's an update. We've raised $365 total, from the gofundme site and Paypal, plus $800 from family. Today, I am $4,100 short to pay a bill that is due tomorrow. I am working with the company to see if I can get an extension. I've already called them to let them know I might miss the payment because of my circumstances and asked if they could extend the due date by a month, but they basically told me that while they understood my situation, there wasn't anything they could do at this point. It seems they want me to wait until I miss the payment and then get back to them. Meh.
I'm just a bit concerned they're just going to hit me where it hurts at that point. I thought about consolidating my debt, but I know those guys charge fees and higher interest rates in some cases, so, I'm just trying to avoid putting my family in a deeper hole. Plus, it takes time to get that processed, so it doesn't really help with the late payment issue.
I'd ask family to float a loan and pay back after I start working again, but no one I know in the family has that kind of cash on hand.
The reason I'm trying so hard to avoid the late payment is that it affects my credit record and potentially could affect my ability to gain security clearance for positions requiring such, which is quite common in DC, particularly with positions in finance. Financial services positions also check credit for those applying for advisory roles for obvious reasons.
I do have several potential leads in the works, including at least three from guys here on the site. I've got 3 other leads getting worked on in federal government positions and a couple of other local contractors I've been talking to about 2 different financial analyst positions. The dilemma I'm in is that I'm running out of time and resources to sustain us beyond the time it would take to go through the interview and onboarding process, which can take a month, and sometimes longer before I see my first check. This is the reason I set our gofundme target at $10,000. That would tide us over for the next 2-3 months and give me a chance to find work.
Right now, I'm just trying to buy enough time to run through these leads. I'm pretty much at the end of the line financially, and I'm not sure how I'll handle the $4,100 payment that's due tomorrow. I've never missed a payment with them and I hate to start now.
I really, really hate doing this, because I don't like airing my struggles like this. I'm embarrassed tbh. But, I'm at a loss for how to figure this out.
Regardless what happens, I really do appreciate the help you all have offered through job leads and monetary support. You guys and gals are the best!
I'll send another update next week with hopefully better news.
If any of you want to suggest something, you can do so here, or feel free to PM me.
Warm regards,
Dave
If you own your home you may be able to do a re-fi. A refinance must provide a net tangible benefit to the borrower, so you may be able to pull equity without getting slammed on interest once you're employed. There are others on this site much more experienced than I who can help you.