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So if a woman dresses provocatively and gets raped, are you going to tell her she shouldn't have dressed that way and that it was just a consequence of her showing off her body?
Because you tried to change the thrust of it in your example by making it about walking her to her car which is irrelevant to this
There is nothing wrong with acknowledging that dressing provocatively may result in extra attention from the wrong kind of people. It's why every parent in the world worried about how their teenage daughter dresses.
The fact that it's not your fault if something bad happens doesn't change the result.
Life is a constant stream of risk assessment. Assuming that you live in a vacuum and trusting that your actions won't have any negative consequences, even though you're in the right, is pretty reckless.