I hate you and am jealous at the same time.My wife and I have a great relationship. My theory is we know when to shut up and take the loss. Neither of us has to win every argument. Every year gets better for us. I'm a bit of a pessimist and tend to think things average out so I'm always worried we'll have a year that balances things out but so far we're 16 years in and get along better than we did year 1. Everyone has "a day" so my expectations aren't for rainbows and unicorns but we are pretty good together. I can't imagine anyone else I'd want to spend my life with and raise our kids.
I hope things get better for you.I cant answer this
There has been a lot of pain. My wifes family sucks, i keep having surgeries from car wrecks, and we havent been able to have a baby.
My wife has been having worsening depression issues over the last couple years to the point she went into a treatment facility this past weekend.
But despite all this pain and trouble, I literally feel like a piece of me has been cut off and I realize how much she means to me and all the pain is worth it if i can just have her back and she be herself again.
So yeah....I am pretty forked up right now