Marriage poll (1 Viewer)

How does your marriage rate?

  • A+ Could not be happier

    Votes: 17 29.3%
  • Ups and downs but more ups than downs

    Votes: 19 32.8%
  • Ups and downs but more downs than ups

    Votes: 4 6.9%
  • Roommates

    Votes: 4 6.9%
  • Tacoes

    Votes: 14 24.1%

  • Total voters
    58

The Moose

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This is kinda silly

Happiness comes from within. True happiness comes from knowing and understanding yourself and has nothing to do with others.

Yes you can have a partner that works equally hard on the relationship but that is rare.

I voted ? cuz I love them.
 

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My wife and I have a great relationship. My theory is we know when to shut up and take the loss. Neither of us has to win every argument. Every year gets better for us. I'm a bit of a pessimist and tend to think things average out so I'm always worried we'll have a year that balances things out but so far we're 16 years in and get along better than we did year 1. Everyone has "a day" so my expectations aren't for rainbows and unicorns but we are pretty good together. I can't imagine anyone else I'd want to spend my life with and raise our kids.
 

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My wife and I have a great relationship. My theory is we know when to shut up and take the loss. Neither of us has to win every argument. Every year gets better for us. I'm a bit of a pessimist and tend to think things average out so I'm always worried we'll have a year that balances things out but so far we're 16 years in and get along better than we did year 1. Everyone has "a day" so my expectations aren't for rainbows and unicorns but we are pretty good together. I can't imagine anyone else I'd want to spend my life with and raise our kids.
I hate you and am jealous at the same time.
 

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We’re in year 25. Sure it had its ups and downs, but it’s gotten better and better as we’ve gotten older. Don’t tell our boys but I’m looking forward to when it’s just she and I at home again.
 

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I cant answer this
There has been a lot of pain. My wifes family sucks, i keep having surgeries from car wrecks, and we havent been able to have a baby.
My wife has been having worsening depression issues over the last couple years to the point she went into a treatment facility this past weekend.

But despite all this pain and trouble, I literally feel like a piece of me has been cut off and I realize how much she means to me and all the pain is worth it if i can just have her back and she be herself again.

So yeah....I am pretty forked up right now
 

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I cant answer this
There has been a lot of pain. My wifes family sucks, i keep having surgeries from car wrecks, and we havent been able to have a baby.
My wife has been having worsening depression issues over the last couple years to the point she went into a treatment facility this past weekend.

But despite all this pain and trouble, I literally feel like a piece of me has been cut off and I realize how much she means to me and all the pain is worth it if i can just have her back and she be herself again.

So yeah....I am pretty forked up right now
I hope things get better for you.

You seem like a great guy.

But you are probably faking that.





Seriously, I don't do thoughts and prayers, but I wish you and your wife the best.
 
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