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So, asking as a non-believer, how do people reconcile the idea that the Catholic church is "ordained by God," yet has condoned and facilitated the systemic sexual abuse of children for generations?
Your question is a good one.
The gospels teach us that we are to expect the worst from even the most foundational of Church leaders. Judas betrays Christ to his death. Jesus proclaims Peter the rock upon which the Church will be built, knowing full well that he would deny him when it counted. Yet we are given the promise that evil would not prevail, no matter how imminent defeat appears.
Matthew 16:17-19
17 And Jesus answered him, “Blessed are you, Simon son of Jonah! For flesh and blood has not revealed this to you, but my Father in heaven. 18 And I tell you, you are Peter,[a] and on this rock I will build my church, and the gates of Hades will not prevail against it. 19 I will give you the keys of the kingdom of heaven, and whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven.”
I do not follow Christ and count myself as a member of his Bride, the Church, because of my own holiness or the holiness of others. We are all sinners, some in the most heinous of ways. I do so because I have no where else to go for this is where I am given the life and grace of Christ in the sacraments, most especially the Eucharist, which is the "source and summit of the Christian life".
We are blessed to have several entries of wisdom from holy and arguably prophetic men in the last century. They keep popping up and this came across to me this morning, from J R R Tolkien, in a letter to his son on the subject of priestly corruption and failure.
You speak of ‘sagging faith’, however, that is quite another matter. In the last resort faith is an act of will, inspired by love. Our love may be chilled and our will eroded by the spectacle of the shortcomings, folly, and even sins of the Church and its ministers, but I do not think that one who has once had faith goes back over the line for these reasons (least of all anyone with any historical knowledge). ‘Scandal’ at most is an occasion of temptation – as indecency is to lust, which it does not make but arouses. It is convenient because it tends to turn our eyes away from ourselves and our own faults to find a scapegoat. But the act of will of faith is not a single moment of final decision: it is a permanent indefinitely repeated act > state which must go on – so we pray for ‘final perseverance’. The temptation to ‘unbelief’ (which really means rejection of Our Lord and His claims) is always there within us. Part of us longs to find an excuse for it outside us. The stronger the inner temptation the more readily and severely shall we be ‘scandalized’ by others. I think I am as sensitive as you (or any other Christian) to the scandals, both of clergy and laity. I have suffered grievously in my life from stupid, tired, dimmed, and even bad priests; but I now know enough about myself to be aware that I should not leave the church (which for me would mean leaving the allegiance of Our Lord) for any such reasons: I should leave because I did not believe, and should not believe anymore, even if I had never met anyone in orders who was not both wise and saintly. I should deny the Blessed Sacrament, that is: call our Lord a fraud to His face.
If He is a fraud and the Gospels fraudulent – that is: garbled accounts of a demented megalomaniac (which is the only alternative), then of course the spectacle exhibited by the Church (in the sense of clergy) in history and today is simply evidence of a gigantic fraud. If not, however, then this spectacle is alas! only what was to be expected: it began before the first Easter, and it does not affect faith at all – except that we may and should be deeply grieved. But we should grieve on our Lord’s behalf and for Him, associating ourselves with the scandalized heirs not with the saints, not crying out that we cannot ‘take’ Judas Iscariot, or even the absurd & cowardly Simon Peter, or the silly women like James’ mother, trying to push her sons.
It takes a fantastic will to unbelief to suppose that Jesus never really ‘happened’, and more to suppose that he did not say the things recorded all of him – so incapable of being ‘invented’ by anyone in the world at that time: such as ‘before Abraham came to be I am’ (John viii). ‘He that hath seen me hath seen the Father’ (John ix); or the promulgation of the Blessed Sacrament in John v: ‘He that he eateth my flesh and drinketh my blood hath eternal life.’ We must therefore either believe in Him and in what he said and take the consequences; or reject him and take the consequences. I find it for myself difficult to believe that anyone who has ever been to Communion, even once, with at least a right intention, can ever again reject Him without grave blame. (However, He alone knows each unique soul and its circumstances.)
Now that's an answer directly to your question. I have wanted to comment, however, specifically on the revelations of the PA grand jury and the new accusations against the pope. I am angry and there's a lot to unpack so I have withheld comment in this thread. I'm not sure I am ready to do so at length but I will say that I think we need investigations like this throughout the country. Only the truth, no matter how horrible, can begin to heal the wounds. The victims and the innocent faithful deserve it. I was encouraged by the secular media's handling of this but I fear that once the true nature of these crimes and the deviant subculture that enabled them are discovered, they will lose their stomach for it. You can already see it in certain publications' framing of Vigano along ideological lines as opposed to dealing with the veracity and content of his claims. I hope I'm wrong.
FWIW, I find the accusations against the pope to be entirely believable. His response to the matter does nothing to discourage that position and his trusted allies such as Cupich (cardinal in Chicago) have been even more abhorrent in their answers.
10 days ago, this satire article was published. Pope Says He Will Address Sex Abuse Scandal Once He's Finished Talking About Climate Change
Yesterday, Cupich says that the pope should not go down the 'rabbit hole' of answering the allegations because he's got more important things to do, like talk about the environment and immigration. You've got to be kidding me!