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Deserves? This was a guy that accused Michael J Fox of faking Parkinson’s Disease.Whoa, whoa, whoa....just whoa. Believe me, if you're dying or have been told you're dying you will deal with death and dealing with your own death is a far different horse than dealing with a death in your family.
I guess all of this has touched a nerve with me, being a Stage IV lung cancer survivor. My heart goes out to anyone who is diagnosed with Stage IV cancer of any type. I know what they and their family are dealing with and I know what they and their family are getting ready to go through. Many of you have been in this spot, either diagnosed with a disease or being part of a family who has someone who has been diagnosed with a disease.
None of us deserve it, no matter what or who we are.
I am going to have to say something now that I never thought I would have to say to this group of people. I grew up in an abusive household. An over-the-line, people should have been arrested abusive household. I don't think there is any need to go into any more detail, but it led to the following:
When my mother got sicker towards the last few years of her life I reveled in the "she is getting everything she deserves" camp. I allowed myself joy to witness her pain. She had not changed her habits, the demons that made her who she was had not changed. Hell, the night before she passed away I spoke with her on the phone and she was still trying to get her digs in. She didn't know she would pass just 24 hours later. When my Dad called me early on that Sunday morning and told me she had passed I did not shed a single tear. I could hear the heartbreak in my Daddy's voice, the love of his life (who had also abused him) was gone and I felt bad for him but didn't shed a tear.
How sad is that?
The honest to goodness truth of the matter is that she did not deserve to suffer and die any more than she deserved to have the demons swimming around her head. Regardless of the strength and vitriol the demons gave her she was still and should've always been, that sweet, beautiful, red-headed girl from East Texas with a big smile and a heart to match.
She deserved my forgiveness.
So, here is the deal with Rush - he does not deserve cancer any more than I deserved cancer or my mother deserved mental disease. Yes, his political views certainly don't align with mine, his abuse (and make no mistake, it is abuse) of minorities, women and others is nothing to be proud of. His unfailing devotion to a party who left him behind many years ago has not served him well. His attempts to keep himself relevant have made him into a caricature and he alone will have to pay the price for that when the time comes.
He does not deserve to suffer and die this way. He deserves our forgiveness, and if we cannot see that then that is on us.