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Calling gay people 'disgusting' and claiming they are the evil heralds of the end of the world is ok. Its religion. Its different.
I have a frank confession to make here. I used to be a Christian and I'm ashamed to say for many years I thought gay people were 'disgusting'. My views were reinforced in bible classes where fellow Christians would condemn gays - and often with a lot of judgmental anger.
Even though I knew a few gay people and liked them personally, I was prejudiced against them and considered them unrepentant sinners. But one day one of my colleagues died of a brain haemorrhage. He was gay and he died while having sex with his boyfriend, so there was clearly no last minute conversion.
This man loved the human race. He cared for everyone he worked with. When we were down he lifted our spirits. He knew everyone's life story, problems, issues and prejudices and he never let anyone's beliefs or opinions of him or his lifestyle stop him being a friend. I was devastated, in all my life I have met few people as kind, inspiring, or fun to be around.
So what could I think? I was told the bible made it clear my friend Dave was bound for Hell...some tried to say well we don't know the mind of God, and we shouldn't judge etc.
It made me reexamine my homophobia, and I abandoned it. Life is tough enough for gay people without bigots like me making it harder for them.
I no longer judge anyone on their sexuality. I try to see all people for what they are not what they look like, what gender or lifestyle they lead.
I am happier for it.