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I have had three.
1. Started in college and lasted much longer than it should have. We were compatible in college but definitely not after that and I was the one that lost interest . . . I should have ended it sooner than I did, regret stringing her on.
that too is one of my greatest regrets. Twice I was in relationships that I knew would not work long before they ended. Its not that I was consciously stringing them on but had I taken the time to really look at it I would have known that was what was going on. The second time I did that, the woman wanted children and I feel horrible about not moving her towards that sooner. At the time, I wanted kids too but never would have with someone I thought to be cat shirt crazy.