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that was not my experience in my 20s-30s, but marriage has taught me that if you want to do something right (or at all) you do it yourself
have a big fight and move to separate rooms and declare you are just roommates for Covid reasons. Have the fight so big that you would be too embarrassed to tell anyone in the family that you are back together. Then secretly start sneaking back into each other’s rooms. It’s like single people having affairs. It’s hott! I mean, so I’ve heard.