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"If we split",
Never a good sign when you are considering that type of contingency.
not saying it's not wise, but it's just not a good sign.
This question being brought up has probably doomed the marriage.
There's obviously other factors there, like, is their biological father even alive?She shouldn't force that on him. He is absolutely correct. If they split and he had adopted the other kids he would be responsible. Also if he adopted them the kids could lose survivor benefits if something happened to their biological father.
We have a winner!!!I guess it just comes from the fact that many people today don't see marriage as a lifetime commitment.
If you've got the sort of relationship where you're operating from the position of "if we split".. no you shouldn't further entangle your life with this other person and their children.
You should probably spend your time attempting to sort out the issues that make you feel this way about the relationship as I'd argue happy people/spouses generally do not operate from such negative viewpoints of their relationship, or just think about going ahead and ending the marriage if you can tell this sheet isn't going to work out.
this is the only correct answer. If that is important to her, she should have put it on the table before the marriage and then they could have come to live with each other’s positions or split ways less invested.They really should have gotten the answer to this before they got married.