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For people who are unwilling to compromise on anything, it's likely that EVs will never meet their expectations. I guess they will switch when forced by market forces or government fiat.
Those with a more open mind realize that EVs represent a paradigm shift in usage patterns. I put in the form of a question: "If you had to charge your smartphone at the smartphone store twice a week, waiting in line 5-10 minutes each time to charge, how would you feel about that process?"
Getting gas is essentially that process. Since it's somewhere you have to drive to specifically for the purpose of recharging, how long it takes and how long it lasts become very important factors.
But ask anyone how long it takes to charge their iPhone, or how many days does it last on a charge and you'll get: ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Why is that? Because they charge their phone at home every night, overnight, and the phone lasts for a full day. That combination is all that matters on the vast majority of days.
EVs operate the same way. Charge at home. Drive during the day. Rinse and repeat.
Road trips are a bit different. Typically because of how batteries recharge, the effective road trip strategy is to stop more often for shorter charging sessions. The current target at the highest end is around 20 minutes recharging enough range to drive for a couple of extra hours.
Again, it may not work for you. And that's understandable. I usually lay out the paradigm shift because your expectations are not close to normal usage. For every one person that actually is on the road 3000 miles a week, there are 100,000 other people who putter to work and back, along with running errand, and taking a family road trip 3 times a year. EVs will work fine for those 100,000 people even if it doesn't work for you. I just hope that folks don't make the mistake of normalizing the extremes that really don't match their reality of car usage.
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I think it just depends on the user - we don’t have to all agree all the time. For people who do a lot of long distance driving and only have one car, EV still isn’t going to work for them. That’s not a large percentage of car owners not that’s a legit position at this point.