Are men really saying it's the woman's fault? I think most dudes understand if they try to hit on a lady and she shuts it down it's not her fault. Just looking at this video it didn't seem like Irvin made a big scene like it was the woman's fault. The hotel made some serious claims that the video pretty clearly disproves. I think that's what he took issue with.
And yes, you have stated your opinion and I understand you don't care if anyone agrees with you. That's cool and the gang my dude. I'm just trying to see where you are coming from. I appreciate your perspective.