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The guy I went on 4 dates with over the past 2 weeks. At first I was like this is cool. By date 3 I was starting to get uncomfortable/really questioning things he said and by date 4 I realized he was bat poo crazy, insecure, angry and quite possibly not a straight man (which in an of itself is fine but not if he's pretending to be straight and interested in females).
Well this thread got personal real quick.
Sorry to hear that, I had something similar happen to me about 15 years ago. I thought this woman was amazing. For about a year, we only talked in passing while studying in the graduate school library. We both had hectic school schedules so going out on actual dates was hard, but we both spent hours in the library sometimes together. The first time we got together outside the library, it was like a totally different person.