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There are tons and tons of success stories of people doing real well that came from welfare households. That is not even questionable.
I think where Biz is coming from is if you should have children knowing full well that you cannot afford to support and raise them and will need assistance, not from family, but from the government/taxpayers. But Biz is thinking that way because he is a responsible person and he feels we should all be and do responsible things in life. This country is not one of responsible people for the most part. It shows in the way we live on credit and do things that directly and immediately affect others negatively, and for some in ways that drain society in general. He seems to be getting a lot of grief for it. However, he has to realize that is the way people are. Period. It will always be that way, just like you stated. Heck, even Jesus explicitly said that you will always have the poor. However, we have to realize that you have to try to help everyone in need to a certain extent, for some are not in need by their own irresponsibility, and some have been and are working past that fact, some will overcome their need in great ways, and some will always be in need by their own poor choices. You do not know who is which so you just have to provide help in general and let people make their own choices in life. That is a benefit of living in the USA and not a third-world country.
My point for myself would be do not raise my taxes anymore in order to pay for the excess of government. They need to tighten their belt like everyone else is.
As an atheist, it always pains me to quote Jesus, but wasn't it him who said something about judging others being up to someone else?
Anyway, I'm not going to judge who or why is deserving of government assistance. Frankly, I don't care. I pay my share and hope for the best for me and mine and you and yours. Begrudging a couple points of taxes takes more energy than simply making a few extra each year.
To each his own, but I've found that most of the people I hear whining and moaning about being over taxed aren't paying much and many of them benefited from public schools and college loans. I enjoy those facts.