Fatal Distraction: Forgetting a Child in the Backseat of a Car Is it a Horrifying Mistake? Is It a Crime? (1 Viewer)

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Excellent article from the Washington Post from a few years ago.

Wanted to post in response to the thread about the woman who left her kids in the car and a reminder of how easily it can turn tragic.
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............The charge in the courtroom was manslaughter, brought by the Commonwealth of Virginia. No significant facts were in dispute. Miles Harrison, 49, was an amiable person, a diligent businessman and a doting, conscientious father until the day last summer -- beset by problems at work, making call after call on his cellphone -- he forgot to drop his son, Chase, at day care. The toddler slowly sweltered to death, strapped into a car seat for nearly nine hours in an office parking lot in Herndon in the blistering heat of July.

It was an inexplicable, inexcusable mistake, but was it a crime? That was the question for a judge to decide.............

"Death by hyperthermia" is the official designation. When it happens to young children, the facts are often the same: An otherwise loving and attentive parent one day gets busy, or distracted, or upset, or confused by a change in his or her daily routine, and just... forgets a child is in the car. It happens that way somewhere in the United States 15 to 25 times a year, parceled out through the spring, summer and early fall. The season is almost upon us.

Two decades ago, this was relatively rare. But in the early 1990s, car-safety experts declared that passenger-side front airbags could kill children, and they recommended that child seats be moved to the back of the car; then, for even more safety for the very young, that the baby seats be pivoted to face the rear. If few foresaw the tragic consequence of the lessened visibility of the child . . . well, who can blame them? What kind of person forgets a baby?

The wealthy do, it turns out. And the poor, and the middle class. Parents of all ages and ethnicities do it. Mothers are just as likely to do it as fathers. It happens to the chronically absent-minded and to the fanatically organized, to the college-educated and to the marginally literate. In the last 10 years, it has happened to a dentist. A postal clerk. A social worker. A police officer. An accountant. A soldier. A paralegal. An electrician. A Protestant clergyman. A rabbinical student. A nurse. A construction worker. An assistant principal. It happened to a mental health counselor, a college professor and a pizza chef. It happened to a pediatrician. It happened to a rocket scientist................


Each instance has its own macabre signature. One father had parked his car next to the grounds of a county fair; as he discovered his son's body, a calliope tootled merrily beside him. Another man, wanting to end things quickly, tried to wrestle a gun from a police officer at the scene. Several people -- including Mary Parks of Blacksburg -- have driven from their workplace to the day-care center to pick up the child they'd thought they'd dropped off, never noticing the corpse in the back seat.

Then there is the Chattanooga, Tenn., business executive who must live with this: His motion-detector car alarm went off, three separate times, out there in the broiling sun. But when he looked out, he couldn't see anyone tampering with the car. So he remotely deactivated the alarm and went calmly back to work............


Fatal Distraction: Forgetting a Child in the Backseat of a Car Is a Horrifying Mistake. Is It a Crime?
 
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Sadly, my wife's friend's husband accidentally left their infant in the back seat while he went to work. He didn't realize until it was too late. He later admitted it wasn't the first time.
 
Sadly, my wife's friend's husband accidentally left their infant in the back seat while he went to work. He didn't realize until it was too late. He later admitted it wasn't the first time.

OMG. I had no idea this was that common of a thing.
 
Sadly, my wife's friend's husband accidentally left their infant in the back seat while he went to work. He didn't realize until it was too late. He later admitted it wasn't the first time.

Wow multiple times! Dude needs to tie a string around his finger so he doesn't forget something as important as a child :jpshakehead:. Yes it is a crime as it should be.
 
Yes, it is a crime, although I have a hard time thinking that jail time is really warranted. In situations like this, the guilt and the aftermath is all the punishment necessary, IMO.

Just having to face your spouse afterwards- I think in that situation I would welcome the electric chair rather than see the look on my husband's face.
 
I used to not understand how this stuff could happen, then we had our first child 4 months ago. I haven't made that mistake and hopefully I won't but I have experienced the compounded loss of sleep. I can only imagine that played into some of the incidents. Not making excuses for those who tragically screwed up but there's been a few times that I double and triple checked the back seat on the way to work and then immediately upon arrival because I was that out of it.

It's both a horrifying mistake and a crime. Like Wolbrat, I don't see what a jail sentence would do in a number of these cases. The damage has been done.

btw-This topic has scared the crap out of me since the little guy was born.
 
Would prosecuting the parent really deter other parents from committing a similar tragic mistake?

I am glad the phenomenon is being publicized though. Does anyone know if there has been any "warning devices" developed? IDK, maybe car seats that have audible warnings if the weight of a child is present and the car's ignition is stopped.
 
This is a prime example of the crazy hectic lives we now live. Smart phones and other electronics occupy our lives more than we realize. Job pressures add to the level off stress. Rather it is legally considered a crime is one thing but the punishment the parent has to live with would be unbearable for me.

We have cars that stop for us. They can parallel park for us. They play our favorite music, beep when you are drifting across the centerline and email us when it is time for an oil change. How hard would it be to warn us that we have left a 10 pound object on the back seat?
 
Sadly people get stressed and busy and things get forgotten. Sure it's a law and I understand why. However, what is the law going to do to someone in this situation? It simply becomes society's act of vengeance to a person who I'm sure will never be the same again. I cannot for a minute understand the pain and horror that these parents go through, and then to be arrested and thrown in jail on top of it seems to be way too much.
 
My first thought.. it's a freakin' tragic accident. That a parent would have to live with the rest of their lives. I would ask, does it become a crime if say, parent leaves child in car, because they were high, drunk, wasted etc ?
 
They had a rash of cases up here in Milwaukee with Daycares for getting kids. Now vehicles used for transportation of kids has to have an alarm that needs to be turned off every time in the back of the van to make sure people don't forget kids in the vans.
 

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