Sexting & Sextortion Scams (1 Viewer)

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I am a high school teacher and know it’s easy to find boys who will do this. Things to keep in mind:

1) Teens have many many relationships with people that they only know on line.

2) So, they will not listen to you while you tell them they “don’t know” someone on line

The solution:

Teen boys don’t understand that girls are wired differently. That they are excited by a cute face, yes, but mostly by power, skill, and competence. A real girl will ask for pictures of your cute face, but will really want to see pictures of you in context - in your sports uniform for example. Or at work (if you have a cool job). Or your muscles. Or looking sappy and in love with them.

High school girls are NOT turned on by genitalia. Most adult women are not either - hence the failure of Playgirl magazine. Literally, girls are not the slightest bit interested in your genitalia. If they were, boys would walk around in codpieces like girls walk around in sport bras. Make them understand this starting in middle school. Girls care about skills, not boy bits.

They can decide this is fair or not. But maybe they will then wonder about that girl who wants a shot of their private parts. If you can’t convince them this is not a girl, you may be able to convince them that she’s acting weird.
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That's actually a very excellent point.
 
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I am a high school teacher and know it’s easy to find boys who will do this. Things to keep in mind:

1) Teens have many many relationships with people that they only know on line.

2) So, they will not listen to you while you tell them they “don’t know” someone on line

The solution:

Teen boys don’t understand that girls are wired differently. That they are excited by a cute face, yes, but mostly by power, skill, and competence. A real girl will ask for pictures of your cute face, but will really want to see pictures of you in context - in your sports uniform for example. Or at work (if you have a cool job). Or your muscles. Or looking sappy and in love with them.

High school girls are NOT turned on by genitalia. Most adult women are not either - hence the failure of Playgirl magazine. Literally, girls are not the slightest bit interested in your genitalia. If they were, boys would walk around in codpieces like girls walk around in sport bras. Make them understand this starting in middle school. Girls care about skills, not boy bits.

They can decide this is fair or not. But maybe they will then wonder about that girl who wants a shot of their private parts. If you can’t convince them this is not a girl, you may be able to convince them that she’s acting weird.
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I will not stand for this cod piece erasure
 
CNN) — About two weeks after his oldest son’s funeral, South Carolina state house Rep. Brandon Guffey says he received a private Instagram message with a laughing emoji.

Gavin Guffey, 17, had fatally shot himself in a bathroom in July 2022, and the grieving father was searching for clues on what led to his suicide.

Then Guffey and his younger son began to get messages demanding money in exchange for nude photos of his late son. Anyone on Gavin’s Instagram followers list who had the last name Guffey got similar messages, his father says.

The family began piecing together Gavin’s last moments and discovered he had encountered a scammer on Instagram and unwittingly became a victim of sexual extortion, a crime the FBI warns is increasingly targeting underage boys and leading to an alarming increase in suicides nationwide.

Now Guffey is suing Instagram’s parent company, Meta, for wrongful death, gross negligence and other claims, saying it does not do enough to protect children like Gavin from online predators.

The lawsuit, filed in South Carolina state court last week, accuses Meta’s social media platforms of causing a range of problems in children, including depression, low self-esteem, anxiety and eating disorders. It alleges that Meta uses algorithms to aggressively target adolescents and does not do enough to keep them safe from harm……


 
CNN) — About two weeks after his oldest son’s funeral, South Carolina state house Rep. Brandon Guffey says he received a private Instagram message with a laughing emoji.

Gavin Guffey, 17, had fatally shot himself in a bathroom in July 2022, and the grieving father was searching for clues on what led to his suicide.

Then Guffey and his younger son began to get messages demanding money in exchange for nude photos of his late son. Anyone on Gavin’s Instagram followers list who had the last name Guffey got similar messages, his father says.

The family began piecing together Gavin’s last moments and discovered he had encountered a scammer on Instagram and unwittingly became a victim of sexual extortion, a crime the FBI warns is increasingly targeting underage boys and leading to an alarming increase in suicides nationwide.

Now Guffey is suing Instagram’s parent company, Meta, for wrongful death, gross negligence and other claims, saying it does not do enough to protect children like Gavin from online predators.

The lawsuit, filed in South Carolina state court last week, accuses Meta’s social media platforms of causing a range of problems in children, including depression, low self-esteem, anxiety and eating disorders. It alleges that Meta uses algorithms to aggressively target adolescents and does not do enough to keep them safe from harm……


Think about all of the young people that have taken their own life due to similar circumstances but their parent was not an elected official. I am glad that it is happening but I really do wish that there was more forethought and accountability to all things social media related. They really do need to pull the veil of anonymity back from social media accounts.
 
In a stunning moment during a congressional hearing over alleged online harms to children, the Meta CEO, Mark Zuckerberg, turned to parents of victims on the Senate floor and apologized.

“I’m sorry for everything you have all been through,” Zuckerberg said as parents held up photos of their children who have died following sexual exploitation or harassment via social media.

“No one should go through the things that your families have suffered and this is why we invest so much and we are going to continue doing industry-wide efforts to make sure no one has to go through the things your families have had to suffer.”

The Snap Inc CEO, Evan Spiegel, offered similar condolences to parents whose children were able to access illegal drugs on Snapchat. Parents of more than 60 teenagers filed suit in late 2023 against Snap for allegedly facilitating their children’s acquisitions of drugs that were used in overdoses.

“I’m so sorry that we have not been able to prevent these tragedies. We work very hard to block all search terms related to drugs on our platform,” Spiegel said.

Zuckerberg and Spiegel were among five executives being grilled in Congress on Wednesday in a hearing titled Big Tech and the Online Child Sexual Exploitation Crisis.

The hearing was called to “examine and investigate the plague of online child sexual exploitation”, according to a statement from the US Senate judiciary committee.

Also attendance were chief executive officers including Linda Yaccarino of X (formerly Twitter), Shou Zi Chew of TikTok, and Jason Citron of Discord.……..

 
CNN) — About two weeks after his oldest son’s funeral, South Carolina state house Rep. Brandon Guffey says he received a private Instagram message with a laughing emoji.

Gavin Guffey, 17, had fatally shot himself in a bathroom in July 2022, and the grieving father was searching for clues on what led to his suicide.

Then Guffey and his younger son began to get messages demanding money in exchange for nude photos of his late son. Anyone on Gavin’s Instagram followers list who had the last name Guffey got similar messages, his father says.

The family began piecing together Gavin’s last moments and discovered he had encountered a scammer on Instagram and unwittingly became a victim of sexual extortion, a crime the FBI warns is increasingly targeting underage boys and leading to an alarming increase in suicides nationwide.

Now Guffey is suing Instagram’s parent company, Meta, for wrongful death, gross negligence and other claims, saying it does not do enough to protect children like Gavin from online predators.

The lawsuit, filed in South Carolina state court last week, accuses Meta’s social media platforms of causing a range of problems in children, including depression, low self-esteem, anxiety and eating disorders. It alleges that Meta uses algorithms to aggressively target adolescents and does not do enough to keep them safe from harm……


There has to be a way to stop this crap. Charge the developer with child sex crimes if they don’t clean it up.
 
Mark Zuckerberg apologized to the parents of children who killed themselves after being subjected to online sexual exploitation during a US Senate hearing Wednesday.

Evan Spiegel offered condolences to parents whose children obtained deadly illegal drugs via Snapchat.

The words were too little, too late for their intended audience, though. The grieving guardians expressed only frustration with the social media CEOs’ responses to their plight and to questions from members of Congress.

“I’m not happy with the answers the CEOs are giving. They can’t give a straight answer. Not even ‘yes’ or ‘no,’” said Tammy Rodriguez, the mother of Selena Rodriguez, who was 11 when she died by suicide three years ago after being solicited for sexually exploitative content by strangers on Instagram and Snapchat.

Dozens of mourning parents attended Wednesday’s senate judiciary committee hearing, Big Tech and the Online Child Sexual Exploitation Crisis, many of them holding photographs of the children who died after falling prey to abusers on platforms such as Instagram, TikTok and Snapchat.

“I am disgusted listening to them. All I care about is the kids are protected and the companies are held accountable,” Rodriguez said.

Toney Roberts’ daughter Englyn was 14 when she killed herself after viewing harmful content on Instagram, including a video of a mock hanging. The video is still on Instagram more than three years after Englyn’s death. Roberts showed it to the Guardian.

“It is hard being here,” said Roberts, who had travelled from Louisiana to attend the hearing. “[The CEOs] are not answering the questions. The longer these companies are allowed to operate like this, the more children will get hurt. Something needs to happen now.”…….

“The existing body of scientific work has not shown a causal link between using social media and young people having worse mental health,” Zuckerberg told the crowded room.

Lori Schott, a bereaved mother from Colorado, said she cried when she heard Zuckerberg’s comments.

“They lack a moral compass; it is profits over the kids. Where there’s money, there’s greed,” she said.

Schott’s daughter Annalee was 18 when she died by suicide. According to Schott, Analee’s mental health deteriorated after consuming content on depression, anxiety and suicide that was recommended to her on TikTok and Instagram.

“She even saw a live suicide on the ‘For You’ page on TikTok. You can’t unsee that. It ate at her internally,” said Schott.…….

Yet Zuckerberg’s words seemed hollow to John DeMay, whose 17-year-old son Jordan killed himself in 2022 after falling victim to a scam soliciting him for sexual images over Instagram.

“The apology was forced,” said DeMay. “It doesn’t mean anything. It’s not going to bring my son back.”……

 
CNN) — About two weeks after his oldest son’s funeral, South Carolina state house Rep. Brandon Guffey says he received a private Instagram message with a laughing emoji.

Gavin Guffey, 17, had fatally shot himself in a bathroom in July 2022, and the grieving father was searching for clues on what led to his suicide.

Then Guffey and his younger son began to get messages demanding money in exchange for nude photos of his late son. Anyone on Gavin’s Instagram followers list who had the last name Guffey got similar messages, his father says.

The family began piecing together Gavin’s last moments and discovered he had encountered a scammer on Instagram and unwittingly became a victim of sexual extortion, a crime the FBI warns is increasingly targeting underage boys and leading to an alarming increase in suicides nationwide.

Now Guffey is suing Instagram’s parent company, Meta, for wrongful death, gross negligence and other claims, saying it does not do enough to protect children like Gavin from online predators.

The lawsuit, filed in South Carolina state court last week, accuses Meta’s social media platforms of causing a range of problems in children, including depression, low self-esteem, anxiety and eating disorders. It alleges that Meta uses algorithms to aggressively target adolescents and does not do enough to keep them safe from harm……


If it happened to my child I’d spare no expense to find the scammer. I’d shoot that person down with no remorse whatsoever. Carl Lee Haley…
 
Okaaayy.. then why dont they use photoshop or whatever you are cryptically implying to blackmail kids, instead of getting kids to send them pics ?
Blackmail is more effective when the person actually did it. They want the kids to panic and do something stupid.
 
Blackmail is more effective when the person actually did it. They want the kids to panic and do something stupid.

They are also using AI images now to similar effect. The premise is that the AI is so good at creating a real-looking nude or sexual image and the scammer tells the victim that no one will believe their denial.
 
it is terrible, and a conversation that needs to happen with teens
 
In a stunning moment during a congressional hearing over alleged online harms to children, the Meta CEO, Mark Zuckerberg, turned to parents of victims on the Senate floor and apologized.

“I’m sorry for everything you have all been through,” Zuckerberg said as parents held up photos of their children who have died following sexual exploitation or harassment via social media.

“No one should go through the things that your families have suffered and this is why we invest so much and we are going to continue doing industry-wide efforts to make sure no one has to go through the things your families have had to suffer.”

The Snap Inc CEO, Evan Spiegel, offered similar condolences to parents whose children were able to access illegal drugs on Snapchat. Parents of more than 60 teenagers filed suit in late 2023 against Snap for allegedly facilitating their children’s acquisitions of drugs that were used in overdoses.

“I’m so sorry that we have not been able to prevent these tragedies. We work very hard to block all search terms related to drugs on our platform,” Spiegel said.

Zuckerberg and Spiegel were among five executives being grilled in Congress on Wednesday in a hearing titled Big Tech and the Online Child Sexual Exploitation Crisis.

The hearing was called to “examine and investigate the plague of online child sexual exploitation”, according to a statement from the US Senate judiciary committee.

Also attendance were chief executive officers including Linda Yaccarino of X (formerly Twitter), Shou Zi Chew of TikTok, and Jason Citron of Discord.……..

Could these apologies be used in the civil liability suits?
 

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