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LOL. Bit of a tangent but I couldn't agree with this more. My wife is super irritated because her sister and her husband informed her this weekend that they are building a custom home that costs significantly more than ours and will be uber-modern Chip and Joanna Gaines approved.
They are on actual food stamps right now. She is unemployed currently and he is a not very successful realtor. And even at full employment, they make probably 30% of what we do combined.
My wife was on the warpath this weekend - they have a $50,000 truck, a $50,000 conversion van (they have four kids), and will have a more expensive house than us. We drive Hyundais - both are paid off. LOL.
There was no listening to reason; that our house is in a much, much more desirable location (MUCH), that they will likely not end up being successful in that house as history has shown, amongst other huge gaps in lifestyle and future lifestyle that I won't specifically call out because I don't want to be a douche. She just knows that her sister will have shiplap and a modern farmhouse look and she can't see past that. Cracks me up.
I mostly hung out with the dog in the game room and drank booze for all of Saturday. 5 years of marriage. It took me awhile, but I'm learning.
Maybe show your wife this.. Or maybe just check it out yourself.. I just think it’s a good overall message:

Shouldn't The Joneses Be Keeping Up With Us?
Ahh, the old keeping up with the Joneses. Such a popular and well-known part of our vernacular, it actually has its own Wikipedia page: "Keeping up...
I’m far from perfect, but at various times in my life (I’m in my mid-40s), I’ve found myself stuck with debt, an expensive car, an expensive home, a high-maintenance girlfriend- or sometimes a combination of all of the aforementioned things... Fortunately, with time and effort, ive been able to catch myself and course-correct before things got too out of hand .. granted, not having kids helps a great deal.. but we should all strive to live more simply IMO, and try to live by the old ‘Collect experiences and not THINGS‘ mantra if we can.