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I've been doing some soul searching the last few weeks trying to figure out what's going on with me. I'm completely over people in general....even our closest friends and family. I don't want to see any of them. My wife and kids are the only people I have any interest in seeing these days. I have a working theory that I'm just bored. We do the same things year in and year out with the same people at the same places. Example is we already have our vacations and year planned through next labor day and it's been that way for 2 decades. The people we do it with bore me these days. I don't enjoy it and I'm sure it shows. I've talked to my wife about it and our plan right now is to do this year because it's already all planned but next year something has to change.
 
I've been doing some soul searching the last few weeks trying to figure out what's going on with me. I'm completely over people in general....even our closest friends and family. I don't want to see any of them. My wife and kids are the only people I have any interest in seeing these days. I have a working theory that I'm just bored. We do the same things year in and year out with the same people at the same places. Example is we already have our vacations and year planned through next labor day and it's been that way for 2 decades. The people we do it with bore me these days. I don't enjoy it and I'm sure it shows. I've talked to my wife about it and our plan right now is to do this year because it's already all planned but next year something has to change.
Winter is a time that humans naturally go inward and reflect. It’s cold, we stay inside, we think about the future (and warmer days).

It’s also normal to feel you’ve outgrown things. Embrace it and go with the new.
 
Winter is a time that humans naturally go inward and reflect. It’s cold, we stay inside, we think about the future (and warmer days).

It’s also normal to feel you’ve outgrown things. Embrace it and go with the new.
So does that apply to this thread?
 
I've been doing some soul searching the last few weeks trying to figure out what's going on with me. I'm completely over people in general....even our closest friends and family. I don't want to see any of them. My wife and kids are the only people I have any interest in seeing these days. I have a working theory that I'm just bored. We do the same things year in and year out with the same people at the same places. Example is we already have our vacations and year planned through next labor day and it's been that way for 2 decades. The people we do it with bore me these days. I don't enjoy it and I'm sure it shows. I've talked to my wife about it and our plan right now is to do this year because it's already all planned but next year something has to change.
Also, just because you have it planned out doesn’t mean you can’t abandon those plans and do something different. There’s no rule that you have to stick to plans.

As long as you give people plenty of notice, I say do what makes you happy.
 
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Also, just because you have it planned out doesn’t mean you can abandon those plans and do something different. There’s no rule that you have to stick to plans.

As long as you give people plenty of notice, I say do what makes you happy.
Definitely, we all need a change of pace every now and then. And I think people will understand if you change plans far enough ahead of time.
 

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